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August 26, 2010 10:10 pm
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Lauren, Jonathan + Bump on the Guadalupe River

As much as Nagishot has become our home over the past year, the Lone Star State still feels like home as well!  We have been back in Central Texas for the past few weeks and have really enjoyed quality time with both of our families and friends. We have made the rounds to Austin, Wimberley, Kerrville, and Houston and there is more to come! It has been so special to reconnect with all of you that love and support us so well. Each day, we are reminded of God’s faithful care for us through the relationships we have.

So, drumroll please…….on to baby news! Baby Ramirez is expected to arrive sometime in the next 6-7 weeks, probably during the first week of October. Our pregnancy has simply flown by, partly due to God’s abundant grace to give me health and strength the whole way. We have decided to keep baby’s gender a surprise until that special moment when we see ‘himmer’ for the first time! We are also excited about our decision to birth at a local birthing center in Austin called Centre Vida with accomplished midwife, Faith Beltz. She is a great fit for us as far as her personality and her belief in the beauty and power of natural birth. Living in Sudan has definitely shaped our appreciation for quality health care, but also increased our awe at the wonder of God’s perfect design for the human body during the birth process. So much happens for both parents and baby to bond them to each other and create a family. This is such a special time for us as we learn and prepare for our baby and it is helping to deepen our marriage. Another gift during this time has been the opportunity to take a birthing class with some very dear friends of ours, Lindsey and John Bell, as they will be welcoming their new little one into the world just a few weeks after us.  God is so good!

In other news: We have had lots of questions about the wheres, whens and whats of our furlough in Texas. To answer just a few of those questions, we are calling Austin home for the next few months. While we will be spending some time with family in other cities, we are thankful to have found a wonderful temporary apartment in South Austin, which will allow us to have the space we need as a family and adjust to life with baby. We have also received a loaner vehicle for this time – thanks a million to Aunt Sue and her friend Doug for organizing this! Jonathan is taking the opportunity to do some sub-contracting construction work in order to supplement our support based income. We are so thankful for those of you who help us out financially, but our support is adjusted for life in Sudan, not America, and definitely not America with a new baby! :)   Please pray with us that God will continue to provide sub-contracting opportunities for Jonathan – and if you have any leads, feel free to send him an email.

Probably the most common question we have heard is, ‘How long are you here?’ and that is a question that we don’t have a clear answer to yet. The short answer is, late January or early February is likely. The long answer demands a historical and political analysis of the nation of Sudan and it is much too long for this blog post. Basically, a Referendum is scheduled for January 9 in which all of the Southern Sudanese will have a chance to vote on the future of the country. They will vote for South Sudan to either secede and form an independent nation or remain united with the North. Due to the historical fact that Sudan is not known for stability and peace surrounding elections and the loaded nature of this particular vote, AIM has decided that all members must leave Sudan during this time. That means we would not be able to get into Sudan from the New Year until the time when voting has ceased, results have been released and AIM has had ample time to assess the situation and clear us for a safe passage back into Sudan. All that to say, we aren’t sure how long we will be back in Texas before returning. Our hearts are definitely committed to returning to our Didinga friends and the ministry in Nagishot, but we will have to wait and see when we are cleared for a safe return. We are praying for peace to reign in Sudan leading up to the Referendum and throughout the voting, so please join us and we will keep you updated on all that we learn.

Lastly, please note that our contact info has changed. When in Sudan, we use our satellite phone for email purposes, but we are not checking that uuplus email address regularly here. You can reach us at: jlramirez@aimint.net or either of our personal emails. That’s about it for now – we will be posting as soon as little baby arrives, so check back soon or subscribe to the feed for a notification.

Much love to all, Lauren

Thanks to Ann Marie Itschner Photography for the great maternity pictures!

July 28, 2010 5:40 pm
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July28th

We hope to see you Austin people at Dominican Joe tomorrow night, Thursday, the 29th!  7-11pm

Special guests include Jonathan and Lauren Ramirez (straight from Sudan!), singer Jimmy McNeal, Paul Banks and the Carousels, Rachel Wood photography, Ritz Valle (games on the patio) and MC’s Scott Frazier and Tepera Holman.

BEST LINEUP EVER!

20% of the evening’s food and drink purchases go to Makarios – shirts and art for sale – Sudanese kids’ sponsorship – bring old cell phones and laptops to donate!

Come and help these kids!

Hi everyone, I wanted to introduce you to our friends at Makarios.  Makarios is doing incredible work in education and development for the Kingdom in Sudan and the Dominican Republic.  You may have heard of them if you enjoy “changing the world” with your cup of coffee from Dominican Joe’s in SoCo in Austin.

Coffee

They’ve partnered with the Lakus and ourselves as key sponsors for the development of the City on a Hill school in Nagishot. Stop by and check out all that’s going on in Makariosville and if you would like to support the work in Sudan by clicking on their donate tab, that would make the world that much better.

The Makarios website is worth a click and at least 5 minutes. It’s what I wish my website could look like actually. Hey, anyone wanna make my website look like theirs? Anyone?

Makarios International

Click HERE to see the Makarios/Sudan site.
Thanks Makarios.  – us

A great Op-Ed piece done by Nicholas Kristof.  I had to post it.
You can see it in its original content at : http://www.nytimes.com/2010/05/02/opinion/02kristof.html
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Who Can Mock This Church?

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By NICHOLAS D. KRISTOF
Published: May 1, 2010

JUBA, Sudan

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Sister Cathy Arata, a nun from New Jersey who now works with a Catholic project called Solidarity With Southern Sudan.

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Maybe the Catholic Church should be turned upside down.

Jesus wasn’t known for pontificating from palaces, covering up scandals, or issuing Paleolithic edicts on social issues. Does anyone think he would have protected clergymen who raped children?

Yet if the top of the church has strayed from its roots, much of its base is still deeply inspiring. I came here to impoverished southern Sudan to write about Sudanese problems, not the Catholic Church’s. Yet once again, I am awed that so many of the selfless people serving the world’s neediest are lowly nuns and priests — notable not for the grandeur of their vestments but for the grandness of their compassion.

As I’ve noted before, there seem to be two Catholic Churches, the old boys’ club of the Vatican and the grass-roots network of humble priests, nuns and laity in places like Sudan. The Vatican certainly supports many charitable efforts, and some bishops and cardinals are exemplary, but overwhelmingly it’s at the grass roots that I find the great soul of the Catholic Church.

The Vatican believes that this newspaper and other news organizations have been unfair and overzealous in excavating the church’s cover-ups of child rape. I see the opposite. No organization has done more to elevate the moral stature of the Catholic Church in the United States than The Boston Globe. Its groundbreaking 2002 coverage of abuse by priests led to reforms and by most accounts a significant reduction in abuse. Catholic kids are safer today not because of the cardinals’ leadership, but because of The Boston Globe’s.

Yet the church leaders are right about one thing: there is often a liberal and secular snobbishness toward the church as a whole — and that is unfair.

It may be easy at a New York cocktail party to sniff derisively at a church whose apex is male chauvinist, homophobic and so out of touch that it bars the use of condoms even to curb AIDS. But what about Father Michael Barton, a Catholic priest from Indianapolis? I met Father Michael in the remote village of Nyamlell, 150 miles from any paved road here in southern Sudan. He runs four schools for children who would otherwise go without an education, and his graduates score at the top of statewide examinations.

Father Michael came to southern Sudan in 1978 and chatters fluently in Dinka and other local languages. To keep his schools alive, he persevered through civil war, imprisonment and beatings, and a smorgasbord of disease. “It’s very normal to have malaria,” he said. “Intestinal parasites — that’s just normal.”

Father Michael may be the worst-dressed priest I’ve ever seen — and the noblest.

Anybody scorn him? Anybody think he’s a self-righteous hypocrite?

On the contrary, he would make a great pope.

In the city of Juba, I met Cathy Arata, a nun from New Jersey who spent years working with battered women in Appalachia. Then she moved to El Salvador during the brutal civil war there, putting her life on the line to protect peasants. Two years ago, she came here on behalf of a terrific Catholic project called Solidarity With Southern Sudan.

Sister Cathy and the others in the project have trained 600 schoolteachers. They are fighting hunger not with handouts but with help for villagers to improve agricultural techniques. They are also establishing a school for health workers, with a special focus on midwifery to reduce deaths in childbirth.

At the hospital attached to that school, the surgeon is a nun from Italy. The other doctor is a 72-year-old nun from Rhode Island. Nuns rock.

Sister Cathy would like to see more decentralization in the church, a greater role for women, and more emphasis on public service. She says she worries sometimes that if Jesus returned he would say, “Oh, they got it all wrong!”

She would make a great pope, too.

There are so many more like them. There’s Father Mario Falconi, an Italian priest who refused to leave Rwanda during the genocide and bravely saved 3,000 people from being massacred. There’s Father Mario Benedetti, a 72-year-old Italian priest based in Congo who fled with his congregation when their town was attacked by a brutal militia. Now Father Mario lives side by side with his Congolese congregants in the squalor of a refugee camp in southern Sudan, struggling to get schooling for their children.

It’s because of brave souls like these that I honor the Catholic Church. I understand why many Americans disdain a church whose leaders are linked to cover-ups and antediluvian stances on women, gays and condoms — but the Catholic Church is far larger than the Vatican.

And unless we’re willing to endure beatings alongside Father Michael, unless we’re willing to stand up to warlords with Sister Cathy, we have no right to disparage them or their true church.

I invite you to comment on this column on my blog, On the Ground. Please also join me on Facebook, watch my YouTube videos videos and follow me on Twitter.

April 15, 2010 4:58 am
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Move that bus!!!

So maybe it’s not quite Extreme Home Makeover’s standards, but it feels like a great improvement to us!

We’ve nearly finished the renovations on the house in Sudan and are very happy with the results so far.  What was once a house built for a single lady is now capable of housing Lauren, myself, and baby/babies in the very near future.

I really enjoyed working with the men and women of the community to move this project forward and felt like I learned a lot through the process about the way things are done here (which is greatly different from the way things are done in the US on a construction site).  We are thankful for those of you who helped us purchase these bags of cement, this paint and helped to employ no less than 50 people in the community in some form or fashion during a time of hunger.  We were blessed to be able to be there and create some jobs for so many.

Every stone, grain of sand, brick, piece of aggregate, jug of water for mixing w/cement had to be hauled up by members of the community, counted and inspected before being approved for building (a big job).  We were thankful especially for Hector Loki who was my building supplies manager.  All of these guys learned some valuable building skills thanks to Apoka (w/the brick in hand next to Hector Loki) who was a hard worker and builder/mason who came from Uganda to help us.

The kitchen!  Lauren cooks every night to contribute to our community meals for about 10-12 people on average…sometimes more!

I’ve piped harvested rainwater in to the kitchen and into our bathing area. (very exciting)

welcome, the living room and entry

dining room..a high chair should pull up nicely and the table will do for now at that size.

guest/baby’s room/storage room & work room (sewing and soap room)

where the magic happens

ze toilette

our first attempt at a demo garden begins

solar power!  light switch operation is difficult to master, but fun.

Thanks for your support and prayers as we make our home among the Didinga in every way.

March 31, 2010 12:35 pm
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Dear Prayer Supporters,

Greetings from Nagishot! We are doing very well these days – Jonathan has finished the construction portion of our housing project and we only have some small carpentry projects remaining. We have fully moved into the completed house and are really enjoying it as a place to host others as well as a respite and sanctuary. I am now in the final days of my first trimester with little baby Ramirez and I am feeling great! We are looking forward to a visit to the international clinic in Kampala for a pre-natal checkup in just a couple of weeks.

Some of you may be aware of the upcoming political elections in Sudan, but we wanted to send out a more comprehensive explanation / prayer guide to help you pray with us over the next few weeks. AIM has ordered a ‘preemptive leave’ for all of us serving in Southern Sudan due to the fact that, historically, Sudan has never had a peaceful election. So we are going to be heading out to Kampala, Uganda next week to wait out the elections and make sure that chaos doesn’t break out. We will most likely be cleared to come back by the beginning of May.

Basically, these elections are for all political figures in Sudan – everyone from President down to County Commissioners will be voted on, and we have heard that campaigning has been going on pretty heavily in more urban areas. Anyone over the age of 18 that registered is qualified to vote but there is speculation about how many people from the rural areas will actually make the effort. Voting begins on April 10 and will continue for 3-4 days in order to allow time for people to get to the polls. Results will be released as soon as the votes are counted, and this is where the potential for chaos lies. Riots and protests over the results could occur, but it is likely they would be confined to limited areas (keep in mind that South Sudan alone is the size of 3 Texas’s). We are hearing hopeful predictions concerning this time from our Sudanese friends. They seem to think that elections aren’t a big enough deal to most people for any major problems to break out.

We simply don’t know, but we are also hopeful. Our South Sudan team has arranged a day of prayer specifically for Sudan and election related issues on the afternoon of Sunday, April 11. We invite you to join with us that day, or any time during these weeks, by praying as the Lord leads you. Some helpful prayer points and scriptures are below. Thank you all so much for partnering with us in our ministry here in Sudan. Amidst such uncertainty, the importance of prayer is becoming more and more real to us each day.

Love to you all,
Lauren and Jonathan

Pray for the Sudanese people – for Northerners and Southerners, for the poor and oppressed, for widows and orphans, and for tribal unity. Pray for the institutions of family and marriage to gain strength. Pray for the uneducated and rural people to be valued and to be empowered during this time of elections.
Families – Psalm 68:4-6, Proverbs 11:29, Mark 10:6-9

Poor and Oppressed – Psalm 9, Psalm 113:4-9, Isaiah 10:1-4

Widows and Orphans – Exodus 22:22-23, Zechariah 7:8-10, Malachi 3:5, John 14:18

Pray for the Church of Sudan – for unity among many denominations under the banner of Christ. Pray for the Church to be a beacon of light, a strong tower and a champion for justice during this time.
Romans 12:1-8, Philippians 2:12-18, Revelation 5:9-10

Pray for the Government and Leadership –  Ask the Lord to redeem a broken institution here in Sudan and guide leaders in wisdom and righteousness. Pray for the placement of Godly men and women in political positions during the elections. Pray that the new leaders would really want to lead FOR the people and not for themselves or for the illusion of power.

Isaiah 9:6-7, Zech 8:12-17, Romans 13:1, 1 Timothy 2:1-2

Pray for the April elections and the coming Referendum in January – Pray for free and fair elections. Pray that riots and violence would be avoided. Pray that these elections would not cause problems or delays for the important Referendum voting coming in Jan 2011 to determine if South Sudan will split to become an independent nation.
Deuteronomy 16:18-20

Pray against strongholds in Sudan – Historical patterns of war, violence and genocide have been going on for hundreds of years. Politics and government have been marked by corruption, greed and idolatry of power. Religious conflict between the Muslims, Christians, and anamistic tribes points to deep seeded hatred. Witchcraft and spirit worship keep many people in darkness.
Corruption, Idolatry, Greed – Isaiah 59, Amos 5:4-15

Violence / War – Psalm 46:9, Psalm 68:19-35, Isaiah 2:4

Islam / Witchcraft – Isaiah 42:10-16, Matthew 4:16, John 1:1-5 & 10-14

Pray for the Future of Sudan – That healing would come to a land riddled with pain and terror. Pray that lasting peace, founded on Christ, would reign. Pray for justice to come to the poor and oppressed and that the government would lead the way in establishing just systems. Pray for unity among the many tribes of Sudan – that they would each be able to maintain their own distinct identity but have respect for one another as fellow Sudanese.
Healing – Psalm 147:3, Jeremiah 17:14, Hosea 6:1-3, Luke 4:40

Peace -  Jeremiah 31:1-14, Amos 9:11-12

Justice – Deut 10:12-21, Psalm 37:7-40, Isaiah 1:15-20, Isaiah 61
Unity – Zech 14:9, John 17:20-23, Ephesians 4:3-6, Revelation 7:9-10

Pray for the advancement of the Gospel and that Jesus Christ would be glorified above all else in Sudan.
Isaiah 62, Malachi 1:11, Romans 14:11, Revelation 14:6-7

March 2, 2010 2:02 pm
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Ikia Doholech (A Baby is Coming!)

Yes, that is right, we are thrilled to announce that a little baby Ramirez will be arriving in early October! We are so thankful for this blessing and our current plan is to come home to Texas for a few months of “compassionate leave” in order to welcome our new little one into the world among our friends and family back home. We are now officially 9 weeks pregnant and doing very well. It is amazing to think about the state of our baby, even at such an early stage of the game (the following is taken from a website where we can chart the growth of our baby each week):

Your new resident is nearly an inch long about the size of a grape and weighs just a fraction of an ounce. She’s starting to look more and more human. Her essential body parts are accounted for, though they’ll go through plenty of fine-tuning in the coming months. Other changes abound: Your baby’s heart finishes dividing into four chambers, and the valves start to form as do her tiny teeth. The embryonic “tail” is completely gone. Your baby’s organs, muscles, and nerves are kicking into gear. The external sex organs are there but won’t be distinguishable as male or female for another few weeks. Her eyes are fully formed, but her eyelids are fused shut and won’t open until 27 weeks. She has tiny earlobes, and her mouth, nose, and nostrils are more distinct. The placenta is developed enough now to take over most of the critical job of producing hormones. Now that your baby’s basic physiology is in place, she’s poised for rapid weight gain.

What a miracle! Keep reading for a few of my (Lauren’s) reflections concerning this journey and the changes it will bring!

Interestingly, one of the most frequent questions we got as we were making our decision to move to Sudan and preparing to leave was, ‘But what about children?’ At face value, this seems like a bit of an absurd question and part of me was tempted to respond with, ‘Yes, many people have children in Africa…in fact, over 50% of the population is under the age of 16 due to the AIDS epidemic’ but I bit my tongue because I understood the implications of this popular question. People were not asking us IF there are children in Africa, but rather what we thought about having our own children in Africa. Many people assumed that we were just going to come live and work in Africa until the time came to have a baby. Then, we would pack up our suitcases and move back to the comfort of America, where our children could be raised in a comfortable, safe and clean environment.

From our safety-driven American culture, it is perfectly legitimate to consider your life in terms of what is safest for yourself and one day, your children. But my question is this: IS it perfectly legitimate to obey God wholeheartedly before you have children and then obey him partially after you have children, conveniently using the socially acceptable excuse of kiddos to change your willingness to surrender. Hmmm…

It is easy to ask a probing question like this without actually probing one’s own heart. I must confess that I too was operating under a lot of fear and not a lot of faith concerning these questions. It wasn’t until we went to our first AIM conference in Uganda over our Christmas break that I really had a chance to identify my own fears and concerns. The guest speaker was talking to a room full of missionaries, asking us what the giant impossibilities in our lives are – the things that we hesitate to put before the throne of God because they just seem too BIG. As I had a few minutes to reflect, I realized that having and raising children in an unstable country like Sudan was one of my ‘giants.’ It just seemed too big of a challenge, especially because of the messages and caring pressures we get from back home. I knew that in my own mind, it was a topic I was not even willing to touch most of the time because it just seemed impossible. I could say with my mouth, ‘all things are possible in Christ’ but my heart was far from trusting Him with this step.

That afternoon at conference, I had some time to go for a run and really reflect on this giant. I realized that fear is an enemy of the Gospel and to allow fear to control me was giving Satan a foothold. It is true that out of the 26 or so current AIM missionaries serving in South Sudan, only one couple have children on the mission field. It is not an easy place to raise babies. The facts may look tough, but God wants to do something in our lives that stands directly in opposition to fear. The more time I spend with Didinga women, the more it becomes apparent that they really do view white women as outsiders because they are not seeing white women come in and join them in their defining role as women – raising children. I was already sensing this division and I knew that the Lord could really use a baby in our own lives to deepen our bonds with our Didinga neighbors when I also came to the realization that the only real reason we were postponing children was the fear and lack of trust in my own heart. At the end of that tearful run, the Holy Spirit was reminding me that I belong to the greatest, strongest, and most able Being in the Universe. He would never leave me nor forsake me and He would give us all that we needed for this new step in our walk with Him. Besides, choosing to raise our children in Africa is only a matter of trading in some American ways for some new Sudanese ways… So, what ARE the things that we will trade in as we choose to raise our baby here in Sudan versus America?

Car seats – You don’t need a fancy car seat with all the straps and buckles when you live in a place that has no roads or vehicles. Instead, every mom gets a fuzzy baby carrier that she uses to carry her baby around on her back, whether she is fetching water, grinding flour or making a 10 mile hike.

Daycare – They say it takes a village to raise a child and we actually will get the help of our ‘village’ in Nagishot. Fellow missionaries, neighbors, church ladies, older children on the compound…there is never a shortage of people available to watch or play with a baby when mom is busy for a while. And the best part is, childcare here is completely free, as long as we are willing to watch someone else’s baby when the time comes!

Disposable diapers – Ok, maybe cloth diapers aren’t as convenient or as clean, but we will be able to reduce our carbon footprint quite a bit through this change.

Jars of baby food – No, we can’t just run into the local HEB and grab some jars of baby food, so we will be forced to be a bit more creative. Thankfully, many of the local fruits and vegetables will mash up nicely and make great baby food in the future. We need to put that hand-crank blender we brought to good use,and who really wants to pay $3 per jar at Central Market for organic baby food, anyway?

Family (Grandmas, Grandpas, Aunts, Uncles and cousins to our new baby) – This one is definitely the most difficult for us. Thankfully, God, in His great mercy, addressed this topic directly in Matthew 19:29 when He said, “And everyone who has left behind houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or children or fields for my sake will receive back a hundred times as much and will inherit eternal life.” William and Eunice are thrilled to welcome their first ‘grandchild’ and our dear Didinga friend Hector Loki and his wife are also expecting their second baby about the same time. Bingo – Aunt, Uncle and Cousins!

Hopefully, these thoughts are helping you all to see a glimpse of our hearts – our struggles and the victory we find in Christ each day. We truly are so blessed as we prepare to welcome our first child into the world and we are looking forward to introducing him/her on both sides of the ocean in the months to come! Blessings, Lauren

February 4, 2010 3:12 pm
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roosters crowing, turkeys gobbling, dogs barking and children chattering are the usual sounds we hear each morning as the sun just begins to rise and fill our bedroom with dim light. we really have to fight the urge to just jump into each day and let the busy-ness sweep us away – it is amazing how fast each day flies by, but yet each day seems to be so full. as we pull ourselves out of bed (by the way, we are now sleeping in our actual house, even though it is still under construction because the mason and carpenter are now occupying the mud hut we WERE sleeping in), we begin a life that seems pretty normal in some regards and very unusual in others.

first, we both tramp across the yard to our pit latrine to take care of some morning business. our pit latrine is a small brick outhouse with a regular toilet seat over a hole in the ground 18 feet deep. in the mornings, it is not a bad place at all, but as the temperature rises during the day, the flies and the odors tend to increase a little more each hour. since this pit latrine was built in 2006, most bush missionaries are now using a pipe system in their pit latrines that help keep odors and flies away from the actual latrine site. a pipe is inserted into the latrine hole that goes up and out of the roof of the latrine, basically creating a natural air duct that keeps the odors and flies going up and out instead of filling the outhouse. we are planning on upgrading our latrine like this in the future, but we are trying to take it one step at a time.

next, we brush our teeth and wash our faces at our water source, a 500 liter water tank with a small spigot that sits outside on the front corner of our house. during the rainy season, we have a gutter system that catches and channels the rainwater directly into the tank, keeping it full most of the time, but since it is dry season now, i have hired a very sweet neighbor lady named eliza to carry water for me. she goes down the big hill from our compound to najaling, the small forest spring, each morning with a 20 liter jerry can and fills it with water and carries it back up the hill 3 times, dumping the water into our tank at the top of the hill. for the Didinga women, fetching water like this is a routine part of their day. since i am a new arrival to the Didinga hills and i am not accustomed to carrying water like this, we decided that hiring eliza would be better. it provides a job for this sweet widow in our church and it helps me to save my time and energy for other tasks.

next, i go through the routine of making coffee and breakfast so that we can enjoy a some time reading God’s word and discussing our days. i fill the tea kettle from the water tank, but since this water came from najaling, it has to be boiled for at least 2 minutes before we can drink it. thankfully, we have a butane gas stove with 2 burners that serves as a quick and very hot source of heat. at most gas stations in East Africa, you can buy a gas tank and have it filled for use with a gas range like we have. it is a pretty typical system since the cities and utility companies are not providing gas like they do back at home. you can even use a gas tank to power an oven or refrigerator. we aren’t that fancy, however! my 2 burner gas range is just what we need. so i wait for the water to boil sufficiently, use a french press to make our morning coffee and store it in a thermos until we are ready to drink it. i never used a thermos back home, but here they prove to be very useful. most Africans prefer hot food and drink over anything cold (even though they live in very warm climates), so i can keep water hot for making tea for visitors and save our precious gas in the tank by not reheating water throughout the day.

as far as our meals go, we have very, very few pre-made meals or ingredients. for example, if we want toast for breakfast, that means i have to bake the bread the day before and then toast it on a skillet over the gas stove. everything is just much slower and more deliberate.

speaking of refrigeration and ovens, you are probably wondering how we deal without either of those. well, refrigeration is kind of a crock when you live in a place where the temperature rarely gets above 85 degrees, i am discovering. we have a large, dark pantry in our house that keeps things out of any sunlight and relatively cool. since the house was built with brick and concrete only, it stays cool even when the sun is shining. i keep mayonnaise, eggs,lemon juice and even some long-life liquid milk in our pantry for several weeks with no problems. we also use cheese that comes in wax wheels and store it in a tupperware container in a dark corner. it doesn’t keep quite as long, but 1-2 weeks isn’t bad for fresh cheese.

as far as baking goes, i learned a little trick from our friend colleen before she left. we have a small kerosene stove, much like the camping stoves most of you have seen before. i have become quite good at changing and trimming wicks as well as filling the stove with kerosene. :) i light the kerosene stove as it is the heat source for my ‘oven’. then, i take 2 very large metal pots (called sufurias) and put them together – mouths touching – to create a sort of pod, or dutch oven. one used tuna fish can turned upside down and resting on the bottom of the pod serves as the “oven rack” and i rest my loaf pans, cookie sheets, and glass bake ware on the tuna can so that they don’t sit directly on the bottom of the ‘oven’ and burn. there is really no way to tell what temperature the heat inside the pod is, so things tend to take a long time to bake. i just lift the top sufuria off and check the status of the baked goods until they seem to be done enough. and 2 hours later – voila! baked bread!

for all you tree-huggers out there, you will be glad to know that we are very loyal to our compost system and every possible egg shell or vegetable peeling makes it into our compost heap. since the compost heap is on the other side of the compound from my kitchen, i have a 10 liter bucket that i keep under my kitchen counter and i fill it as i prepare meals. every 3 days or so, when it is full, i take it and dump it on the compost heap and then cross my fingers that the chickens and dogs won’t eat all the good micro-biotics before they have a chance to decompose!

this time of year, we have a ton of great local and organic produce available. on our compound alone, we have tomatoes, carrots, squash, zuchinni, sweet potatoes, and onions. occasionally, someone will stop by who is selling lemons, avocados, mangoes, pumpkins, Irish potatoes, and even local honey. maize flour and wheat flour are also ground from the local harvests and provide staple foods for the Didinga. we can also get fresh meat a couple of times a week, as someone will come by with a chicken for sale or as a cow is slaughtered in the market. it works out well for us because the Didinga prefer the cuts of meat that have fat and bones in them and we get our pick of the lean steak meat. we have also had some great local dik-dik and porcupine meat! all other food items, we order from outside. that means they usually come in on the airplane, which is not cheap. until a reliable road is built to nagishot, we will continue to have to get our canned goods, baking supplies, bulk items and cleaning supplies this way.

bathing is another topic i have been asked to shed some light on. many missionaries are familiar with the term ‘bucket bath’ and we are also now very familiar with this form of washing. we are working on a crude shower system for our new house, but we are currently using the Laku’s shower room until ours is finished. they have a small tin room, next to their latrine, with a concrete floor and a drain. you can either take a shower by heating some water over the gas stove and then carrying it in a bucket to the shower room. then, you climb up the scaffolding they have holding a large drum up at the level of the roof and pour your water into the drum. the drum has a pipe drilled into it that allows gravity to carry the water into the shower room and out of a simple shower head. the downside of this system is that there is no control over the temperature of the water and you are kind of at the mercy of how much cold water is already in the drum from previous deposits and rainwater. you also have the option of a ‘bucket bath’, which involves heating your water and carrying it into the shower room in a bucket. you then stand in a basin and pour the water over yourself with a cup, using plenty of soap, until you are sufficiently clean. i prefer this system because i don’t get as cold standing there trying to wash my hair from the lukewarm, trickling shower head. we are both big advocates of bathing every 1-2 days. mostly for health and partly for sanity. while many of our other conditions may feel like camping, bathing regularly is just a must here for longevity.

let’s see – what else might you all want to know about our daily lives? electricity is a very funny thing here and we are still trying to figure it all out. we have a solar panel system that provides enough power on a sunny day for charging our laptops, satellite phone and occasionally playing music. in the future, we will also have enough power to have a few lights in the house. for now, we use two kerosene lanterns and our head lamps after dark for light, but once you get used to not having lights after dark, you hardly miss it. we do tend to go to bed earlier here, partly because we don’t have lights and power to keep us up late and partly because the days just seem to be more demanding and tiring.

i hope this has satisfied some of your curiosity about how we survive here in nagishot! it all sounds quite romantic on paper, but the reality is that these small lifestyle changes slow us down and tend to require more energy. they are not bad changes at all, but they are new elements of life and thankfully, God is giving us the grace to accept and adapt each day. please let us know if you have questions or other ideas for future blog posts – we love hearing from you all!

blessings,
lauren

January 27, 2010 5:20 pm
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dear friends,

well, we have good news! joshua has woken up from the coma and seems to be doing well physically. thank you for your prayers – we know this is yet another act of God’s mercy on joshua. mentally, he is still quite unstable and so eunice was taking him back to butabiga mental hospital in kampala yesterday to readmit him. this time, they are going to have to put him in the hospital for a longer period of time, probably 3-4 months for supervision and treatment. it is not anyone’s first choice, but it seems to be the best option for keeping joshua safe and healthy. i will say that we were very impressed when we visited butabiga in kampala. the grounds were beautiful, the staff were kind and peaceful, and the patients seemed to be getting good care and treatment. we hope that this solution will give william and eunice the peace and freedom they need to be able to return to nagishot and their ministry here. we do not have an ETA for them in nagishot, but we are praying that it will be soon!

in other news, three other AIM missionaries arrived yesterday to serve alongside of us in nagishot! we are very excited for them to be here as they all spent 8 months in napep, a neighboring didinga community in 2009. they already know some language and culture and are eager to get involved in nagishot. we are not sure exactly what capacity they will be serving here, but it looks like education, agriculture and bible storying are their areas of interest. jonathan is hard at work on their new home as well as our own. we are hoping to have most of these projects completed by april, when we will have our next break out of sudan. pray that things will go well and the buildings will be able to progress. thank all for joining us in this mission – we love you all!

lauren

January 25, 2010 1:56 pm
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Update from last blog:

I just got off the phone with William and he informed me that the latest info is that Joshua is in a coma at the Kampala Intl Hospital after overdosing on his medicine and any other medicine he could find in the Laku’s house. Apparently he went in to his parents room and found his epilepsy medication and proceeded to take the entire contents of the almost full bottle. Then he went throughout the house finding more medicine and taking all of those as well. When Eunice realized what he had done, she rushed him to the hospital, but he had already lost consciousness and gone into a coma.

Joshua was ejected from Butabiga Mental Care Facility because he tried to climb the fence to “go home”. In the process, he only got a few cuts and scrapes.

The doctors said that if he is to return to Butabiga, he’ll be in a different ward with more serious cases than the ward he was placed in this time and require that he stay for a minimum of 4 months for treatment.

The Lakus can’t afford that stay if Joshua pulls through this coma, so I just wanted to say thank you to all of you who have contributed so generously. William expressed to me that the knowledge of having God providing for Joshua’s medical expenses through your generosity gives him one less thing to worry about as his father.

Thank you. Please continue to pray with us.

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